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 Is It Legal ?

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 Yes.  Phantastica is a Members Only club to which access is strictly restricted by Membership Card.  No one is admitted to the club unless we have identification which proves their age and members of the general public are not permitted entry under any circumstances. 

We hold all the correct licenses for alcohol and entertainments and are regularly inspected by the Fire Service and Health & Safety Executive.

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 What is the Dress Code ?

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 Do we have to strip off ?

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 Absolutely not.  Phantastica is about exercising your individual right to choose.  It's rare to see completely naked people in bar area and a lot of people simply wear a towel.  We do ask that you don't go into the Play Rooms fully clothed but bra and panties is fine - as long as you are comfortable we are happy.

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 Can I bring my own drinks ?

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 No.  There are several reasons for this and we'd like to explain them here.  Firstly, we have our own fully licensed bar and we'd like you to use it!  Secondly, and almost as importantly is that when our staff serve you they will be looking out for your interests.  It's easy in an excited, nervous state to get carried away and have to much to drink.  This is especially the case on Friday nights when we want to make sure that single guys don't get plastered and create a nuisance of themselves.  Please respect this as it really does help us to maintain a pleasant ambience in the club and our bar prices are low - typically pub prices or less.

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 Can I smoke on the premises ?

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 Of course.  Smoking is permitted anywhere in the main bar area and social areas.  However, all the playrooms and immediate area is a "NO SMOKING ZONE" this is to ensure the safety and comfort of our guests.  Be warned : if we catch you smoking in these areas you WILL be asked to leave and your membership cancelled.

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 Will others come onto us as soon as we walk through the door and will we be expected to have sex with others on the night?

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 NO and NO.  This is perhaps the most commonly asked question and we'd like to assure you that it just doesn't happen that way.  The members of Phantastica understand that a key component of our lifestyle is the ability and willingness not only to explore our own limitations but also to respect and cherish the limitations of others.  Most couples sit and chat in one of our social area or dance floor and will go to play when the mood is right.  Some couples like to be watched and won't approach you, and some couples simply come to the club to socialise and make friends.

Phantastica, is not, and never will be a "meat market".  Even in the hottest areas of the club no-one will pester you into doing anything you are not 100% comfortable with.  We also encourage appropriate behaviour from our single members and expect them to adhere to the Advice for Single Guys - even on a Friday Party night the ladies and couples will not be pestered.

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 Can We Say NO?

 Absolutely.  Again, our members recognise that in order for the experience to be worth anything it has to be by mutual consent.  Our lifestyle choice is not about forcing ourselves on others but exploring TOGETHER.  The word NO is important at Phantastica (to the point where it's written into our Club Rules ) and no-one will be offended if you say it.  After all, we were all new once, we've all been nervous, and (quite frankly) we've all met people we simply don't fancy.  Using the word NO is important and our members will respect you more for using it than simply going along with something you are not comfortable with.

Whilst we are on the subject, on a Friday Night when single guys are allowed into the club, the LADIES are in charge and have final say.  Again, the guys understand this and will not take offence if a lady exercises her right to say NO.

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 Does Phantastica allow Single Guys to be members?

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Yes.  Although many clubs do not allow single guys to join, at Phantastica we have an open and equal membership policy.  However, single guys are only permitted into the club on Friday Party Nights, you can check our event section to find nights that single guys are allowed in

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SPECIAL ADVICE FOR SINGLE GUYS

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Click here for advice for Single Guys 

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 Does Phantastica allow Single Girls to be members?

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 Do we have to answer this one..don't be silly!  Of course we do!

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We only allow 2 gay males or 2 lesbian females to apply for couples membership only. We do not allow same sex couples in any other format to apply.

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  How many Members are there?

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 Many and growing daily..

We don't artificially inflate our membership figures - we don't have to.

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 What's the average age of club members?

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 Our oldest members are in their seventies and our youngest are twenty-one so it spans the whole range.  On an average evening the majority are around their mid-thirties.  Please note that people under the age of 21 will not be admitted under any circumstances.

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 What sort of people join the club?

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 What sort of people shop at your local supermarket?  It's the same sort of question and just as difficult to answer!  Our members come from all walks of life and include professional business people, manual workers, students, and the unemployed.  Our members are rich, poor, fat, thin, southern, northern, black, white, yellow, and we're sure that an alien will join us eventually!  Phantastica (and its' members) are inclusive, highly tolerant of others, and recognise that it isn't what you are that is important; it's who you are.  As one of our members is fond of saying - "We're all the same sat naked in the pool".

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 Do we need to bring a towel?

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 YES.  Even if you aren't planning on using any of the facilities in our wet areas, you'll probably still want to have a shower before you leave.

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 Do I have to give you my address?

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 Yes.  Phantastica is a MEMBERS ONLY club and it is important that we can verify that you are who you say you are.  We NEVER pass your details onto third parties and we operate a very strict privacy policy.   You will be required to produce 2 forms of identification on your first visit.

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 Will you write to me at home?

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 We realise that many of the couples who come to the club and join as a couple may not be in a conventional relationship and that one or both of them may have regular partners or be married.  We are completely non-judgemental and if this is how they choose to live then that is entirely up to them.  We also realise that if we send printed information to a home address we run the risk of possibly causing some serious hurt.

All of our correspondence is carried out via email.  The only newsletters we have are sent via email to  our members on a weekly basis.

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 When are you open?

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 We have regular party nights every Friday and Saturday with the first Thursday of every month.  Please see our Events Page for more information.

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 We are travelling a long way.  Where can we stay?

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 Although Phantastica does not recommend specific local hotels you can view a brief list of some of the most popular local accommodation some with special offers for members by
clicking here

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 How do we start?

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 Go up to someone and say Hello - it works for us!

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 Are condoms available?  Are they free?

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 Yes and No.  We have a condom vending machine in the men's toilets.  We don't supply free condoms as otherwise we'd be refilling the machine every five minutes!  In the interests of safe sex and mutual respect we encourage the use of condoms at all times.

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 My question isn't listed here!  Now what??

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 Sorry we haven't got your question listed yet. Please ask here . Our highly trained staff are able to answer all of your questions professionally and discreetly.

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